Leadership

Leading as a Woman in Male-Dominated Spaces

Reflection on the invisible challenges of being the only woman in the room and practical strategies that have worked to grow without losing authenticity.

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Paulina SánchezFounder & CEO at RealUp
Leading as a Woman in Male-Dominated Spaces

I still walk into rooms where I'm the only woman.

And the first thing I feel is not pride. It's that silent pressure of knowing that before they read the company's numbers, they're going to read how I look, how I speak, if I'm "too intense" or if I'm "too emotional".

The hardest part is not the bias itself, it's that many times it doesn't even come from bad intentions.

These are things so normalized that sometimes you internalize them without even realizing it.

For a long time I felt I had to prove more. More results, more confidence, more control. Lead well, grow the company, look good, be kind, and also not make too many waves.

That exhausts you.

But I've learned several things that have helped me grow, despite the challenge.

If you're in that place, here's what has worked for me:

• Don't try to fit into molds that aren't yours, you can lead from your own personality.

• Don't minimize your achievements. On the contrary, occupy the space with confidence, because you earned it.

• Build your network: Therapy, friends, mentors, other founders. Entrepreneurship is already difficult, doing it alone is much harder.

• Ask for help and ask questions without shame. Trust me, it changed my life.

• And prioritize your mental health. A woman in leadership not only carries the company, but also enormous social, emotional, and family expectations.

Today what moves me most is thinking about the women who come after. Every company we build, every room we enter, opens a path that didn't exist before.

And that's worth so much.


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